Do you itch for *more* in your relationship but don’t know how to get it without hurting the people you love?

Do you feel insecure or jealous and are unsure how to handle it?

Do you struggle with expressing all of this to your partner(s)?

When you work with me, you’ll learn the skills and tools you need to vouch for yourself.

And build the confidence to pursue the relationship you dream of, full of adventure and excitement as well as intimacy and peace.

Hi, I'm Sarah!

When I was in my twenties, I felt hopeless when relationship after relationship seemed to fail. It was always the same story. I was in love but I always found I eventually wanted to connect with other people. I would try to push this desire down, but that didn't work; I started feeling resentful, I cheated, I ended my relationships, left feeling confused and even more lost. Finally, after my last monogamous relationship ended in 2016, I learned, there was another way. I could relate openly. Since then, I’ve made a lot of mistakes but eventually found a loving partner, who I now have a beautiful baby with. We are non-monogamous and I’m so happy now I can have love, intimacy, and even a family and still be totally myself in my relationship.

Have the romantic life you truly want.

  • Rise above your jealousy.

    Learn how to get a handle on this many-faced creature for a more peaceful love life.

  • Get past guilt & shame.

    Want to be with more than one person at once? Learn to be proud and stand up for want you want.

  • Make real change in your life.

    As you get past mental blocks and behavior patterns that do not serve you, call upon your strengths to take action in your relationships.

"Just in the the small time we’ve been working together I feel fulfilled, I feel more myself, I have more energy for what life throws at me."


"At the start of our coaching sessions, I was really anxious about not having these big milestones in life. She helped me realize where I was, build self-awareness and be comfortable over time to communicate freely. Now after some time, I'm more calm...

It's a very real and raw experience working with Sarah. It's not always easy, it's not always comfortable, but it's impactful, incredibly impactful."

-Leah

"Celebrating my optimistic delusion has brought in so much love, joy and opportunities."

"Our call really jump started the healing of my heart 🥰 and celebrating my optimistic *delusion* has brought in so much love, joy and opportunities for me in the last month. Thank you for the work you do and the love you put out! 🥹❤️"

 - April

"I've learned to do what feels right in my heart, not just what society wants, and live true to myself."

-Renee

"I feel more at ease with the fact that my partner wants to see other people."

"This was just necessary. I've realized stuff I hadn't realized before and challenged my beliefs. It was very very helpful for me

I don't think three or four months is enough to rid yourself of jealousy but I feel more at ease with the fact that my partner wants to see other people, I still sometimes feel triggered but I feel more empowered...that I can manage this discomfort."

-Camilla

"Before we started working together, non-monogamy seemed impossible. Four months later, I'm actually in a non-monogamous relationship."

"When Sarah and I started working together, I felt guilty about wanting to be non-monogamous. It seemed impossible. But her guidance helped me shift my perspective, and now 4 months later, I'm actually in a non-monogamous relationship.


In our sessions, Sarah created a safe space where I could explore my boundaries and emotions without judgment. I learned to listen to my body and prioritize what feels nourishing for me, which has made decision-making much easier and more intuitive. 


I also loved the structure Sarah provided. From the start, we had clear goals and everything felt thoughtfully planned, which kept me focused throughout our work together. With her help, I’ve cultivated healthier, more intentional relationships, and I'm so grateful for her guidance."


-Aga

It starts now.

Have more connected, fulfilled, and adventurous relationships.

I work with clients, who want to be ethical, honest, and open in their relationships. We will work together for a minimum of three months to make a profound change in your life. If you're ready to take the leap, book a 20-minute vision call with me now.
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Testimonial - Leah

Testimonial - Camila

Systemic coach

Based in Berlin

I'm a certified systemic coach and practitioner of Vipassana meditation and Nonviolent Communication. I guide our process through a mindfulness lens. In our sessions together, we will not only use the power of conversation but creative methods to get you out of your old thought patterns and poised to make real change in your life. I'm mixed race (Black and Jewish), speak fluent German and English, and provide a welcoming format for people of all races, genders, and orientations. I've lived all over the world and currently reside in Berlin.

Who I work with

If you meet the following criteria, there's a good chance we'll soar together. You are:

  • Willing to get out of your comfort zone, get creative, and take risks both in and out of sessions.

  • Care deeply about being an ethical, honest person. No more sneaking around.

  • Self-reflective and can look at yourself and the world with a critical eye.

  • You're available during the weekdays CET (mornings or early mornings if you are in the U.S.).

  • Ready NOW to make big changes in your life.

I'm here to tell you, f*ck your excuses, and to give you that final push.

We’re going to get you to the romantic life of your dreams. Together.

What is coaching?

Coaches help clients, like you, improve their relationships, their careers, or any other aspect of their lives.

Systemic coaches, like me, do not just focus on one area but the whole system. In other words, even though you may come here with a specific problem or goal, we won't zero in on that and ignore everything else.

Instead, we will look at all aspects of your life because everything is connected. This is how you will make the lasting and meaningful changes you want to see.

Note: Coaching, unlike therapy, is not a tool for treating diagnosed psychological illnesses such as depression and anxiety. If you are looking to treat a diagnosis, please see a licensed mental health professional.