Alternative Relationship Diaries
It's time to love on YOUR own terms.
Step out of tradition
and into a romantic life that's truly yours.
Most people are too stuck in our culture's very narrow definition of love to really consider all the incredible possibilities that lie beyond.
These interviews will push you to take that first step into a romantic life that aligns with you.
What you'll learn:
❤️ 7+ different relationship styles, from non-monogamy to singledom, from triads to throuples, from vees to platonic romances
👨🏼⚖️ How our speakers deal with disapproving family members and conservative employers
🌈 More about people who are LGBTQ+ AND poly and how being non-monogamous with children works
💫 How our speakers deal with jealousy and other challenges and, what exactly makes pursuing an alternative lifestyle worth it
Why do I need this?
Change the way you see love forever
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*30 interviews* on all types of relationship styles timestamped and tagged by category. Figure out what might be right for you and change your life forever.
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*Support an important mission* to open up the conversation around sex and non-monogamy, and help people feel more confident about what they desire, even when it goes against convention.
What real people said about the summits*
*The diaries are the best 30 interviews of the Alternative Relationship Summit's 2022 & 2023
"Open, honest, progressive, and accepting."
I liked the raw honesty from the speakers, discussing often-challenging subjects.
"I liked finding that there are no limits to the breadth of people choosing new alternative lifestyles - and they are all ok"
The wealth of information and wonderful speakers
"What strikes me most from the majority of interviews is the moment of realization that this is a real thing and how come I didn't know about it before because it feels so right….which resonates loudly for me at this time"
Really opened my eyes to a lot of possibilities for my wife and I to explore and also questions for us to ask ourselves (and even counselors if we need some additional info). Really great work. And it was definitely worth the VIP cost to keep viewing those.
"I know I am very grateful for simply being able to hear others' points of view of what can seem like a daunting lifestyle choice to make - but it has most definitely helped me to believe it is not only the right choice for myself, but that I am also only at the start of my journey and there is much to learn"
"Wow, so many different examples of people discovering their own truth in relationships. It was inspiring and gave me lots of hope!"
"Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place to give any kind of feedback, but I just wanted to thank you, so much, for bringing these people together and making this series happen."
A few of our incredible speakers...
Elliott
Elliott lives in London and has been openly non-monogamous for 3 years. He came to non-monogamy out of a desire to deepen connections with those around him, outside of his already-established relationship. There is nothing more fulfilling than defining your life by how you want, just be open to the possibilities. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
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Janel
Janel lives in the Bay Area and is in an open relationship with her partner who she met at Burning Man. Now she's toying with the idea of finding another person to love besides him. Is that even possible?
Joe Duncan
Joe lives with his girlfriend and her husband down in Florida. Hear how he's managed to navigate jealousy throughout his life.
Bear n Fifi
Kabir Brown (Bear) is a Black queer transgender man, born and raised in Brooklyn, New York.
Sofia Mojica (Fifi) is a pansexual Puerto-Rican cis woman from The Bronx, NY.
After moving in together several years ago they are now reclaiming their solo poly tendencies in their own unique way.
Kitty
Kitty is a relationship coach and author. She is married and his been polyamorous since before it was cool. Learn about her life full of love and connections.
Jeremy
Jeremy lives in Berlin. They identify as polyamorous, slutty, sex worker, kinky, genderfluid and queer. Learn about their journey from monogamish to polyamorous to still-figuring-it-out.
Some more great speakers...
Jacqueline
"Jealousy is a gift of insight." Jaqueline is a queer Latine woman living in the New York metro area part-time with her daughter and wife and part-time with her girlfriend. How does she balance her two lives?
Janel
Janel lives in the Bay Area and is in an open relationship with her partner who she met at Burning Man. Learn how she navigates being the higher desire partner in her relationship.
Courtney
Courtney from St. Louis has been dabbling with open relationships the last few years and spends his time fighting to reduce STD stigma.
Joe Duncan
Joe lives with his girlfriend and her husband down in Florida. Hear how he's managed to navigate jealousy throughout his life.
A few more of our amazing speakers
Dana & Daniel
Dana & Daniel aka "Danaandthewolf" have been together for 15 years, and polyamorous for 8. Learn about some of the struggles they've faced being polyamorous in LA.
Meg & Kevin
Kevin and Meg live in Boulder, Colorado and have been Monogamish since they started dating 3 years ago. They have a lot of dope advice on how to be the best partners they can be for themselves and for the world.
Andoni
Andoni hails from Mexico but lives in LA producing films. Exploring polyamory has been a roller coaster. Try going through two breakups within the span of just a few months.
Dedeker, Emily, and Jace
Learn more about the hosts of the best podcast on polyamory out there. What's their deal?
Shaft
Shaft is a tantric healer and Youtube star. He is both "polyamorous and monogamous" and has been on an intense journey over the last 30 years discovering himself.
Laura
Laura is a polyamorous mama who has been practicing polyamory for 15 years. She has made all the mistakes and shares some of them and some tips with us. Echem renaissance fairs.
Phillip
Phillip is solo poly and hails from the midwest. He sometimes struggles to find partners open to poly where he lives. That said, he's found a way to create a nest of love in his life.
Fernanda
Fernanda hails from Mexico and now lives in Brooklyn. She and her partner of four years are in a mono-poly relationship, meaning she's dating others and he isn't. It's been a slow process to get to this point. How did she handle wanting something so different from her partner?
And then some...
Marisa
Marisa has been poly for 18 years, and for a big chunk of that time, she's been married to her husband and dating another couple with him. She has two kids and lives in Delaware.
Learn how she handles being the family's "black sheep." (Spoiler alert: she kills it).
Rachael
Rachael lives with her nesting partner and kids in Washington state and has an asexual but romantic relationship with a woman. How does that work? Super interesting dialogue around this you don't want to miss.
Ro
Ro is a life coach out in London and is solo poly. She talks about her love life up until now and has some fucking deep insights to share. For me our convo kind of felt like a free coaching session ;)
Andrew
Andrew lives out in Denver and has been in a relationship with one of his partners for several years. They recently both fell in love with the same man and had him move in with them. Now they are living in throuple format. Watch him discuss his journey coming out multiple times in his life.
Andoni
Andoni hails from Mexico but lives in LA producing films. Exploring polyamory has been a roller coaster. Try going through two breakups within the span of just a few months?
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